Baptised and stuff

Well, this weekend was Lucy's baptism. We had a fine little party with friends and family, and now I get to clean up and enjoy.

Video on Mito

Mitochondrial Disease is an inherited disease that can affect every system in the body. My friends daughter, Penelope, has this disease... It can have hardly any effects, or it can be devestating.

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Developmental Evaluation

This morning we had a developmental evaluation for Lucy. After not doing this when I adopted Gwenn, and early intervention would have been beneficial, I'm all in favor of doing the evaluation even if you think that your adopted child is on target.

So the news today is that they believe that for the most part Lucy is on target developmentally - for a 20-24 month old child, which is how old they assume that she really is. Now keep in mind, with a 4/24/05 birthdate, that puts her currently at 29 months - so they are thinking that she is 5-9 months younger than her paperwork states. That is in sync with the pediatrician, who is thinking that she is 6-7 months younger than her paperwork states.

At this point I've now started to think about changing Lucy's birthdate. I'm not emotionally tied to her birthdate, especially with mounting evidence that her birthdate may be either a work of fiction, or what I really think happened - the dates of another child whose paperwork somehow got mixed up with Lucy's. Somehwere out there is a child whose adoptive parents are thinking they have one of the most mature 2 year olds with congenital heart disease....

I'm not sure how I'll lean for birthdays. Right now I'm thinking about meeting in between somewhere - maybe a late August birthday (one less year of childcare) - she'll get into kindergarten early, unless at the time I feel that I need to hold her, with an August birthday I can make that decision. If she gets into school and is only a little behind folks will think "well, she has a late birthday" - but if I keep an April birthday and she is behind it would be more like "what's up with this kiddo!" I know a lot of folks in the adoption world think that you should keep the birthdate. But - if the date is fiction, or one that you have due to a paperwork mix up, let's not be emotionally tied to it - and deal with what might be best for the kiddo. I'm still in the decision making process, but I am leaning towards the date change.

This is so freaking cool!

Google errors

Well, I can't get to the blog right now. Google seems to think that I am trying to access illegeally - hopefully not a Google thing against folks accessing from MS. Nothing would suprise me... Good grief - even in China I couldn't access (view) the site, but this is crazy...

100 Best Adoption Friendly Workplaces

Well, Microsoft is #66. I'd rather see us at #16, but I'll take it. Interesting that the #1 company only offers 1 week of paid leave. I would have put JPMorgan Chase (listed at #4) as the #1 choice, since they offer great reimbursement and fantastic paid leave.

Also of note - almost all of these companies are in the east or south - Microsoft is the only northwest company, and there are 6 others from California... That doesn't speak well to companies in the western US. However, I would like some HR folks to note that Google is # 38...

Moms out there...

You've got to watch this. I feel as though she was channeling my last "discussion" with the girls...